Timeout is over.

Timeout is over.

*Momma timeout: Is Over!

The Chaos Editor is baackkk!

Hey Friends , Hey! It’s been a while. A very loonnng while. But to say the least I’m back, refreshed and ready to write on my own blog, again. For my friends that did not know and wonder where I’ve been. Mommas been workin’! No, but really when I started freelance writing for other bloggers and small businesses, what I thought was going to just be a “little” side hustle, turned into a full fledged job! So, with that I just didn’t have the mentally ability to write for my own blog.

I am still writing for other bloggers and small businesses but have now narrowed down my clients to select posts. This will allow me the mentally ability to write for my own blog, as well.

I am also still doing Pinterest Management for entrepreneurs and I also work at an amazing Consignment Boutique, that’s brings me incredible joy, a Darling atmosphere and Dashing co-workers and shoppers.

I also still work events for our Soul Food Joint restaurant & Catering business, along with wife’ing and momma’ing.

So, Momma was just tired and needed a break. And unfortunately, my own blog was neglected. But friends, I’m back!! With more chaos, more tricks, hacks, and resources.

So grab your wine, tea, or water and let’s continue documenting sustainable chaos. #chaoscoodinators, let’s go!

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Your favorite Editor of Chaos,

Shannon 🌸💕

Happy Blog Birthday: The EDIT Chaos!

Happy Blog Birthday: The EDIT Chaos!

Happy Blog Birthday!

Happy Valentines Day or Galantines

Be Your Own Motivation and make sure to love yourself and treat yourself to a TIMEOUT.Happy Birthday The EDIT Chaos! I’m super excited to say that today marks my blog anniversary that I (officially) published this blog. Although, the thought of blogging entered my mind years ago, I however did not believe in myself years ago. I, remember sitting on the floor in my bathroom crying, while feeding the baby to write my VERY FIRST blog post. I felt defeated and exhausted with everything that was going on in the world and my life.

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I was very happy with how far I had come, but unsure with my emotions of gratitude. I remember thinking to myself, I can do this, I can write a blog. I wanted so badly to write and to express my feelings, to share my cries, my knowledge, to have someone to (talk) with. I had this feeling of emptiness, but also a feeling of grate-fullness. It’s hard to explain. BUT, throughout the feelings I decided to write. Although, I do not have A lot of published posts, I DO have a lot of journaling. Some I will share, eventually and some that is just for me. Those that are just for me, I wrote  in the mist of ALL my emotions. Writing the sh*t out was my form of self care. It was my TIMEOUT. Time, to think, to cry, to laugh, be grateful, find peace, but most of all, find Myself! 

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For everyone that has encouraged, shared, read and just listened, I want to say THANK YOU!  

The Best Investment one can make, is Investing in themselves!

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Shannon

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How To Get More Done In Less Time

How To Get More Done In Less Time

GUIDE TO TIME MANAGEMENT

Overwhelmed and struggling to find time for everything on your plate? or Even make a D*mn plate?

If so, you’re not alone. The good news is that there are plenty of ways to get more done in less time. Continue to read for some tips and tricks for better time management. EDIT your DAY

Those who are able to manage their time tend to be more productive, less stressed, and more successful. When you have the space for opportunities, opportunities will show at its greatness. That is one of the Benefits of time management and I must say, that it is a great one. 

1. Set Priorities

Most important aspects of effective time management is setting priorities. When you know what your priorities are, it’s easier to determine how to spend your time. Ask yourself what is most important and what can wait.

2. Make A List

Writing that Sh*t out, by making a list of everything you need to do is so helpful in many ways. First, it can help you get a better understanding of what and how much that needs to be done. This is helpful to avoid the feeling of being overwhelmed. Secondly, you see which tasks are most important and need to be tackled first.[the_ad id=”869″]

3. Use A Planner

A planner is your best friend! It is also a great way to keep track of your time and make sure you’re using it effectively. Having everything written down in one place will help you stay organized and on track. There are many different types of planners available, so find one that works best for you.

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. Set Deadlines

Start any of your tasks, by setting a deadline. Having a specific date or time when something needs to be done can motivate you to get started. Once you’ve set a deadline, make sure you stick to it and hold yourself accountable.

5. Take A Break

Working non-stop is not an effective use of time. In fact, it can actually lead to decreased productivity. Make sure to take breaks throughout the day to recharge and refocus. Taking a few minutes to yourself can help you come back to your work feeling refreshed and ready to tackle whatever is next on your list.

6. Say No

One of the best things to do when it comes to time management, is saying no. If you’re taking on more than you can handle, it will only lead to stress which will decline productivity. So, if someone asks you to do something that you don’t have time for, don’t be afraid to say “No”. Saying “No”, is also a form of self care.

7. Delegate

If you’re finding yourself with too much on your plate, delegate some of the tasks to someone else. This is be a great way to get things done and free up some time. Of course, it’s important to make sure that the person you’re delegating to is actually able and willing to do the task.

8. Eliminate Distractions

To be productive, it’s important to eliminate distractions. This means turning off your phone, closing social media tabs, and anything else that might take away from your focus. Blocking out the sounds in your space is important when you’re trying to get something done, it’s important to give it your undivided attention.

9. Set A Time Limit

Set a time limit for yourself. This can help you stay focused and avoid spending too much time on one Tasks. Knowing that you only have a certain amount of time to work on something, can help you stay productive.

10. Take Care Of Yourself

Last but not least, remember to take care of yourself. This means making sure you’re getting enough sleep, eating healthy foods, and taking some time for yourself. When you’re not feeling your best, it’s difficult to be productive. So make sure to make time for Self Care.

What are some of your favorite time management tips? Share them in the comments below! If you like this post please share and PIN!

From your Favorite Editor of Chaos,

Shannon

 

 

Books To Help Achieve A Wealthy Mindset.

Books To Help Achieve A Wealthy Mindset.

A Thriving Mindset To A Wealthy Lifestyle.

Investing in yourself does not always mean new this or that. It means investing in a better you, a smarter you, a wiser you. It is taking the time, money, wisdom and resources to better your current life situation.

A main way I was able to invest in my self was , READING.

I dedicated time to help my growth and to learn how I could be better in my life situations. I Started reading books that pushed me put of my comfort zone and forced my mind to reprogram, to influence my subconscious thoughts.

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Here is a list of books that I read to Invest in myself and completely turn my thought process around and to help me run a successful business, blog and just a better ME.

1.Rich Dad Poor Dad

By Robert T Kiyosaki

This Book teaches a valuable lesson. That the Lower and (somewhat) middle class work for their money, while the upper middle and upper class have their money work for them. BAM, if that doesn’t make you rethink somethings, then what will.

2.You Are A BadAss

By Jen Sincero

This book provides great exercise, tell amazing stories to help you identify your self-sabotaging beliefs and behaviors, to get what you deserve in life.

3. You are a BadAss at making money

By Jen Sincero

This book focuses on money mindset and wealth creation. Pushing you pass your fears to create the bank account you want and deserve.

4. Rich as F*ck 

By Amanda Frances

If you want a laugh, this is it. Amanda talks about how to Manifest the money you want and how to make your money work for you. This books talks about how to use your money everyday and once you look at your money differently, your pockets will also change for the better.

5. The Greatest Secret

By Rhonda Byrne

This book is teaches fundamental concepts of Law Of Attraction and Manifestation. It teaches you that you become what you think and you attract what you think most.

6. The 4-hour work Week

By Timothy Ferriss

This books talks about how we work our lives away to earn money only to enjoy it after retirement, is NOT living.

 

These may not be your reading choice, but what is your choice, is to better yourself, to live and to have a thriving life that you deserve.

From your Favorite Editor of Chaos,

Shannon

Happy One Year: The EDIT Chaos!

Hello Editors! Happy Valentines Day or Galentines Day, call it what you want! Just make sure to love yourself and treat yourself to a TIMEOUT. I’m super excited to say that today marks one year that I (officially) started this blog. Although, the thought of blogging entered my mind years ago, I however did not believe in myself years ago. I, remember sitting on the floor in my bathroom crying, while feeding baby to write my VERY FIRST blog post. I felt defeated and exhausted with everything that was going on in the world and my life.

I was very happy with how far I had come, but unsure with my emotions of gratitude. I remember thinking to myself, I can do this, I can write a blog. I wanted so badly to write and to express my feelings, to share my cries, my knowledge, to have someone to (talk) with. I had this feeling of emptiness, but also a feeling of grate-fullness. It’s hard to explain. BUT, throughout the feelings I decided to write. Although, I do not have A lot of published posts, I DO have a lot of journaling. Some I will share, eventually and some that is just for me. Those that are just for me, I wrote  in the mist of ALL my emotions. Writing the sh*t out was my form of self care. It was my TIMEOUT. Time, to think, to cry, to laugh, be grateful, find peace, but most of all, find Myself! 

For everyone that has encouraged, shared, read and just listened, I want to say THANK YOU!  

The Best Investment one can make, is Investing in themselves!

Please, continue to follow me, as I edit my way through Mommahood, Style, Entrepreneurship, Sustainable efforts,DIYs, Momma Timeouts and all of my wonderful chaos. Grab a tea or wine and stay awhile!!

Your Favorite Editor Of Chaos,

Shannon

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The Best Sustainable Alternatives You Can Do Now

The Best Sustainable Alternatives You Can Do Now

*This post has been updated 11/2023

I enjoy living as sustainable as I can. My motto is “It’s better with a lot of little steps, then one big step” because while I try my best, I’m no where near perfect. The last few years I’ve tried finding the best alternatives to the products I grew up with and continued using into adulthood. You know: paper towels, paper plates, plastic wrap, plastic sandwich bags, foil, straws and other disposable items.

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Below you will find the list of things that “Jenkins Party of Six” decided to switch.

They were one of those things that I knew would be hard to part with. I mean, I have chaos running throughout my house at all times. Between needing to clean up spilled milk, juice or any type of liquid that one can imagine, including the golden shower. I knew paper towels would be the last to go. But, I gave it whirl and I am still whirling it out! I came across Seventh generation paper towels and hit the jackpot. They are natural unbleached paper towels that we have used for a few months now and love. Yes, I know we could completely go the terry towel route, but again it’s the little steps.

It’s just something that is supposed to be in your pantry, right? Well, thats what I thought …Nope, wrong. I searched high and low for a good alternative that came from a company that was ethical and I was happy to find Bee’s wrap. It’s made of organic cotton with beeswax, organic jojoba oil, and tree resin in Vermont. They’re relatively easy to wash. Just use cold water, dish soap and hang to dry. We have them in various sizes ranging from small, medium, large, sandwich and the bread size to wrap up baked bread. The great thing is that they last up to a year and are compostable when they’re unable to be used any longer.

We did the math and we used approximately 60 plastic bags per month minimum. Just from packing lunch and snacks and food storage. Thats a ton of plastic being thrown out. I didn’t have to search very hard for this alternative because when I read reviews nothing compared to the Stasher bags. I bought three just to see if they were worth the hype and I was HOOKED. They’re incredible and we have a total of eight or so now. You can dish wash, microwave, put them in the oven, and on the stovetop in a pot, use them for years. Nothing else that I could find even compared. They have a wide range of sizes and colors and they’re made of silicone vs plastic. We’ve had ours for almost a year now so that means we’ve saved at least 720 Ziploc bags from ending up in the landfill.

This one was the one of the easiest for me to switch out. The hardest thing to remember is to take it with you! We use Simple Modern , which I really enjoy. They come in a variety of colors and sizes to meet, many of your needs. I get ours from Dick’s sporting goods, but I’m certain you can find them at any sporting store or Amazon.

Remembering to bring my reusable bags was the hardest part of making this switch but, when you have bags that preform fantastically they’re easy to remember. I can’t say enough good things about BAGGU bags because they’re simply incredible. You can fold these bags down into their little pouches, which comes in a wide range of patterns and sizes.They hold up to 50 pounds, which means I can stuff my toddler into one, if need be! (This is a full disclaimer, stating that I have absolutely NOT stuffed any of my toddlers in any bag.!). They also come in a variety of sizes and they are all machine washable.

My thoughts were similar to the paper towels – time consuming and messy to switch out. Surprisingly it wasn’t! I purchased the reusable coffee filters from GoldTone and they have worked incredibly for me. When the coffee is done, I dump the coffee grounds, give it a rinse and then throw them in the bin with the reusable cloths so they can all get washed together. We also use a Cafe Du Chateau French press that I love, and is super easy to clean.

I know it’s more things that could be added to our list, but again little steps. These little steps, made by my family will make huge impacts. At the end of the day, do what is best for your family and what makes you ALL thrive.

From your favorite Editor of Chaos,

Shannon

Title Your Crown!

*This post has been updated 11/2023

Attention All Chaos Coordinators!!

You should be very diverse in refereeing all age groups. W.T.H. is something that you will often express silently, but definitely, not out loud. You will display epic patience with all age groups and awareness of self. You will be a gentle voice to all ages, while being screamed at. Mainly for doing what was asked. You should exhibit strong leadership skills with a forgiving mind. Because every soul is innocent with feelings that are hard to express. The ideal candidate is enjoyable to be around and is always motivated to meet the needs and expectations of their client. The ideal candidate will except nothing less for their client and to be there for them in the most trying times.

Responsibilities:

  • Modeling the way by delivering a positive and supportive attitude while breaking up around 10 little fights.
  • Act as a positive role model to the chaos tribe, by contributing to the overall vibe.
  • Inspire, motivate, and encourage during developmental meltdowns.
  • Possesses excellent communication skills during ALL cry competitions.
  • Demonstrate proficiency and knowledge in tantrum control
  • An active role in understanding and adhering to new emotions
  • Assist and coordinate all imaginative projects
  • Exhibit awareness when help is needed and comply.

Qualifications:

  • MUST BE a serial detective based on unrealistic data, provided by those of questionable knowledge.
  • SHOULD BE able to Solve problems that did not exist, that will be mind blowing and you MUST show excitement.

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Shannon

Be the Firecracker, not just the spark!

One of the biggest things that we neglect, is betting on ourselves and saying NO . We, strive to be the BEST mom, wife, friend, lady that we think makes us perfect and accepted. That society, trauma, generational curses, has deemed us to mold into. As a mom, to a little girl that has a stern concept of NO. I often wonder if she will always be this bold girl (eventually woman), who stands in her NO proudly. As I watch her fight for her NO, with her siblings, its also very clear that she understands her boundaries with the meaning. She clearly understands that NO is power, and power is respect. This little girl is betting on herself to create the atmosphere( life) that she desires and deserves, on her terms.

Now, as I watch this little girl bicker with her siblings, I’m amazed! She holds, persistence, determination, and standards for herself. That she truly believes in her power and getting what she want and needs. Along the way, as adults we loose our power in the word NO. We cave to YES, to please, and to earn the respect we think we desire. But TODAY let’s change! Let’s, put our big pants on, our sparkly boots and imaginary tiara. Let us all cave into saying No. Let’s say No, for that once little girl who would be so proud of you today, for growing and acknowledging! That little girl who, no matter what believes in her power.

Girl, you got this!

As we do our daily tasks, and take care of our little people and love ones. We must also remember that saying NO to those extra play dates, events, home cooked meals, extra work assignments; is okay. It’s not selfish, it’s self care and respect. Your kids will not hate you, your friends will not neglect you, your important family will be there, and work will still be there. Everyone’s belly is full from that frozen pasta, you stuck into the oven. No; gave you power and respect. Because the best ROI (return on investment) is betting on yourself.

From your Favorite Editor of Chaos

Shannon

How To Create A Daily Schedule For Structure.

How To Create A Daily Schedule For Structure.

How To Create A Daily Schedule For Structure And Fewer Corner Cries.

As many of you know, working from home with littles is really stressful. Like, crawling into a corner and cry stressful. But wait, you are a bad a** mom, who keeps little people alive! That fact alone, gives you all the permission to crawl into any d*mn corner you want and cry. Besides, my occasional meltdowns, “I” or should I say “WE” thrive best with a schedule.I don’t beat myself up for not solely sticking to it. …But, I am admittedly saying that I love the structure it gives the kids and the fewer corner cries for me. Take a look, at our Daily schedule in the Jenkins household

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Now, that you see our schedule, you can see there’s nothing really special about it. But, it works for us! Those simple planned out hours, keeps everyone functioning and together in our chaotic house. The kids love it and I love the fact that I have some type of normalcy throughout the day. So momma, who cares if it’s a couple of bullet points that you knockout or a well planned hour by hour schedule. Just remember, your are doing the d*mn thing and your little people are happy! And if you must go to a corner and cry it out, well d*mn you deserve it! Self care comes in many forms, including releasing tears to decompress and saying “I Got This!”. So now that we covered that, let’s go grab a tea and raise our mugs to Bad A*** Mommas, Everywhere!

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Your favorite Editor of Chaos,

Shannon

Why You Should Make Self Care A Priority

Why You Should Make Self Care A Priority

Self care is taking your power back!

Its rewarding yourself for all the amazing things you do, day in to day out! It’s being selfish, it’s saying No, It’s not showing up for anyone, but yourself first! Momma, you deserve time to fill your cup, so that it can pour into others!

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As Moms, as Women

we spend so much time making sure everyone in our home and around us, is taken care of. We tend forget about ourselves and our needs. D*mn, we forget about our wants. But I’m here to tell you, its okay to indulge in a little self care and to gain your power back, even if its just for an hour.

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To practice self care, we do not have spend $money$ on something fancy, it can be as simple as taking a bath, having two glasses of wine, reading a book alone or taking a class, as long as it’s something for you to recharge. Here’s some of my favorite things I like to do, to practice self care.

As you can see my list is very vague, but those simple things make me happy and allows me to get my power back. It allows this Momma, to recharge, show up and show out as my best self! To all the Mommas and women out there feeling bad for wanting to get your power back, you got this and you deserve to show up for your future SELF.

Your Favorite Editor of Chaos,

Shannon