Momma Hacks that helps my Chaos.

Momma Hacks that helps my Chaos.

With change in the seasons and the sun staying out longer, my days seem to get more chaotic, from a my daily to-dos list, practices, play dates, birthday parties and just trying to have any type of social life.

I complied a few things that help me manage my beautiful chaos….

1. Make your coffee the night before or pour it into a water bottle first thing

2. Have groceries delivered or atleast go in the store with a well mapped out list, making sure to Avoid any trigger isles. I mean damn, if you have not walked out of store with complete embarrassment, while surf boarding your child. Are you really momma-ing?!?

3. Schedule, schedule schedule! We all know a Toddler will turn into a monster, if one thing is wrong.

4. Screen time is okay! Please don not feel bad about it!

5. Have a Healthy snack readily available.

6. Alternate toys! Your kiddo def gets tired of the same toy, so make is fun for them to play alone, giving you additional time to get things completed.

7. Get outside for at least 20 mins a day. Even if it’s raining or snowing. I’ve learned that the kiddo really do not care. They just want to have fun. If anything, It’s more so you, not wanting to look like a wet dog.

8. Enjoy the moments! Chaos or no chaos your kids are happy and thriving and so are you!

From you favorite Editor of Chaos

Shannon 🌸

The Future is Bright!

The Future is Bright!

Hey Friends, Hey!

Remember when you told yourself this is the year, and NOW ITS ACTUALLY THE YEAR!!?! Q1 flew by And now we’re well into the new year, new Quarter and goals are aligning and your list is seeing wild check marks! Here are some ways we will continue to thrive and check mark our goals and dreams.!🌸

Here’s the list:

1. Doubt. Too many times you may have found yourself on the self-doubt train asking yourself “why is this not happening for me?” or “what am I doing wrong?”. What you need to understand is things won’t always go as planned. Honestly “planned” events are overrated, I can attest to that. (Wedding, businesses, friendships, trips… the list goes on) Majority of the things in my life never went as planned and it has been the most enjoyable, successful, blessed moments of my life. So instead of beating yourself up and second guessing your greatness, own it and thrive into the greatness that was created JUST for you!

2. Boundaries. We are all getting too mature to have unclear boundaries with others.. Set boundaries and be direct with what you accept and what you will not. It’s is okay to say “No” and not have any feelings behind it.

3. Fear of failure. This one hits home for me. You have to allow yourself to Grow in order to a thrive. Eliminate the mindset that fear is in control. Be open and committed to learning yourself, and to value your worth.

4. Not celebrating yourself. Too Many people feel guilty when they celebrate themselves. DO NOT!!. You worked hard and put in work. You never gave up. Do not feel like you have to dime your light around others, because others should brighten theirs to compliment yours.

5. Settling. Why settle? Allow yourself to take steps intentionally in the right direction where you will grow and thrive.

6. Gaining approvals. I struggled and struggled hard with this. Understand that you do not need anyone’s approval to do YOU. Please, leave that behind. You owe it to yourself to be your own cheerleader. Be the whole Damn firecracker, not just the spark.

7. Light Dimmers . We all know them! . Let them go. Anyone who can disturb your joy and happiness do not need to be a part of your life!

I hope this was helpful. As we continue to thrive in this year, remember each season, each Quater will not all be the same. But as we continue to thrive in our own greatness, every step will have a meaning, we just might have to change our perspectives to see and understand.

#EDITtoGrow #EDITtoTHRIVE #beyourownmotivation

From,

Your favorite Editor of Chaos

Shannon 🌸

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Is Blogging Dead?

Is Blogging Dead?

Blogging is very much alive!

Blogging is Very much alive and Thriving! I’ve been getting a lot of questions asking if blogging still popular and if I really think that someone can make money from blogging.

BUT the reality is, Blogging is very much a live!  Blogging is evolving and now is the time to jump on the rails to ride it out. Blogging is the OG of social media and with proven results time and time again, that it can continue to thrive! Even when all else fails( or crash for the day!) lol. Blogging will continue to thrive, in ways others can not. Depending on how you, utilize your blog, it can also be a great Source to generate passive income.

SO STOP BEING IN YOUR LAZY ERA, and start your Blog!!

From your Favorite Editor Of Chaos

Shannon 🌸

The Future is Bright!

The Future is Bright!

Hey Friends, Hey!

Remember when you told yourself this is the year, and NOW ITS ACTUALLY THE YEAR!!?! Q1 flew by And now we’re well into the new year, new Quarter and goals are aligning and your list is seeing wild check marks! Here are some ways we will continue to thrive and check mark our goals and dreams.!🌸

Here’s the list:

1. Doubt. Too many times you may have found yourself on the self-doubt train asking yourself “why is this not happening for me?” or “what am I doing wrong?”. What you need to understand is things won’t always go as planned. Honestly “planned” events are overrated, I can attest to that. (Wedding, businesses, friendships, trips… the list goes on) Majority of the things in my life never went as planned and it has been the most enjoyable, successful, blessed moments of my life. So instead of beating yourself up and second guessing your greatness, own it and thrive into the greatness that was created JUST for you!

2. Boundaries. We are all getting too mature to have unclear boundaries with others.. Set boundaries and be direct with what you accept and what you will not. It’s is okay to say “No” and not have any feelings behind it.

3. Fear of failure. This one hits home for me. You have to allow yourself to Grow in order to a thrive. Eliminate the mindset that fear is in control. Be open and committed to learning yourself, and to value your worth.

4. Not celebrating yourself. Too Many people feel guilty when they celebrate themselves. DO NOT!!. You worked hard and put in work. You never gave up. Do not feel like you have to dime your light around others, because others should brighten theirs to compliment yours.

5. Settling. Why settle? Allow yourself to take steps intentionally in the right direction where you will grow and thrive.

6. Gaining approvals. I struggled and struggled hard with this. Understand that you do not need anyone’s approval to do YOU. Please, leave that behind. You owe it to yourself to be your own cheerleader. Be the whole Damn firecracker, not just the spark.

7. Light Dimmers . We all know them! . Let them go. Anyone who can disturb your joy and happiness do not need to be a part of your life!

I hope this was helpful. As we continue to thrive in this year, remember each season, each Quater will not all be the same. But as we continue to thrive in our own greatness, everything step will have a meaning, we just might have to change perspectives to see and understand.

#EDITtoGrow #EDITtoTHRIVE #beyourownmotivation

From,

Your favorite Editor of Chaos

Shannon 🌸

Timeout is over.

Timeout is over.

*Momma timeout: Is Over!

The Chaos Editor is baackkk!

Hey Friends , Hey! It’s been a while. A very loonnng while. But to say the least I’m back, refreshed and ready to write on my own blog, again. For my friends that did not know and wonder where I’ve been. Mommas been workin’! No, but really when I started freelance writing for other bloggers and small businesses, what I thought was going to just be a “little” side hustle, turned into a full fledged job! So, with that I just didn’t have the mentally ability to write for my own blog.

I am still writing for other bloggers and small businesses but have now narrowed down my clients to select posts. This will allow me the mentally ability to write for my own blog, as well.

I am also still doing Pinterest Management for entrepreneurs and I also work at an amazing Consignment Boutique, that’s brings me incredible joy, a Darling atmosphere and Dashing co-workers and shoppers.

I also still work events for our Soul Food Joint restaurant & Catering business, along with wife’ing and momma’ing.

So, Momma was just tired and needed a break. And unfortunately, my own blog was neglected. But friends, I’m back!! With more chaos, more tricks, hacks, and resources.

So grab your wine, tea, or water and let’s continue documenting sustainable chaos. #chaoscoodinators, let’s go!

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Shannon 🌸💕

Happy Blog Birthday: The EDIT Chaos!

Happy Blog Birthday: The EDIT Chaos!

Happy Blog Birthday!

Happy Valentines Day or Galantines

Be Your Own Motivation and make sure to love yourself and treat yourself to a TIMEOUT.Happy Birthday The EDIT Chaos! I’m super excited to say that today marks my blog anniversary that I (officially) published this blog. Although, the thought of blogging entered my mind years ago, I however did not believe in myself years ago. I, remember sitting on the floor in my bathroom crying, while feeding the baby to write my VERY FIRST blog post. I felt defeated and exhausted with everything that was going on in the world and my life.

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I was very happy with how far I had come, but unsure with my emotions of gratitude. I remember thinking to myself, I can do this, I can write a blog. I wanted so badly to write and to express my feelings, to share my cries, my knowledge, to have someone to (talk) with. I had this feeling of emptiness, but also a feeling of grate-fullness. It’s hard to explain. BUT, throughout the feelings I decided to write. Although, I do not have A lot of published posts, I DO have a lot of journaling. Some I will share, eventually and some that is just for me. Those that are just for me, I wrote  in the mist of ALL my emotions. Writing the sh*t out was my form of self care. It was my TIMEOUT. Time, to think, to cry, to laugh, be grateful, find peace, but most of all, find Myself! 

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For everyone that has encouraged, shared, read and just listened, I want to say THANK YOU!  

The Best Investment one can make, is Investing in themselves!

Please, continue to follow me, as I edit my way through Mommahood, Style, Entrepreneurship, Sustainable efforts,DIYs, Momma Timeouts and all of my wonderful chaos. Grab a tea or wine and stay awhile!! Also go check out my post How To Have Success with Blogging.-A simple Way

Your Favorite Editor Of Chaos,

Shannon

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Be your own Motivation!…Keep Going

Be your own Motivation!…Keep Going

Hey Friends, Hey!

Be Your Own Motivation!!… Keep Going!

Tip of the DAY!….. Be your own Motivation and just keep going. Believe in yourself.

Be Your Own Motivation!!
https://pin.it/5BibmGO Just Keep Going!

You F*cking got This!! … just keep going!💕🌸 Be Your Own Motivation!

From Your Favorite Editor of Chaos,

Shannon

 

 

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How To Get More Done In Less Time

How To Get More Done In Less Time

GUIDE TO TIME MANAGEMENT

Overwhelmed and struggling to find time for everything on your plate? or Even make a D*mn plate?

If so, you’re not alone. The good news is that there are plenty of ways to get more done in less time. Continue to read for some tips and tricks for better time management. EDIT your DAY

Those who are able to manage their time tend to be more productive, less stressed, and more successful. When you have the space for opportunities, opportunities will show at its greatness. That is one of the Benefits of time management and I must say, that it is a great one. 

1. Set Priorities

Most important aspects of effective time management is setting priorities. When you know what your priorities are, it’s easier to determine how to spend your time. Ask yourself what is most important and what can wait.

2. Make A List

Writing that Sh*t out, by making a list of everything you need to do is so helpful in many ways. First, it can help you get a better understanding of what and how much that needs to be done. This is helpful to avoid the feeling of being overwhelmed. Secondly, you see which tasks are most important and need to be tackled first.[the_ad id=”869″]

3. Use A Planner

A planner is your best friend! It is also a great way to keep track of your time and make sure you’re using it effectively. Having everything written down in one place will help you stay organized and on track. There are many different types of planners available, so find one that works best for you.

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. Set Deadlines

Start any of your tasks, by setting a deadline. Having a specific date or time when something needs to be done can motivate you to get started. Once you’ve set a deadline, make sure you stick to it and hold yourself accountable.

5. Take A Break

Working non-stop is not an effective use of time. In fact, it can actually lead to decreased productivity. Make sure to take breaks throughout the day to recharge and refocus. Taking a few minutes to yourself can help you come back to your work feeling refreshed and ready to tackle whatever is next on your list.

6. Say No

One of the best things to do when it comes to time management, is saying no. If you’re taking on more than you can handle, it will only lead to stress which will decline productivity. So, if someone asks you to do something that you don’t have time for, don’t be afraid to say “No”. Saying “No”, is also a form of self care.

7. Delegate

If you’re finding yourself with too much on your plate, delegate some of the tasks to someone else. This is be a great way to get things done and free up some time. Of course, it’s important to make sure that the person you’re delegating to is actually able and willing to do the task.

8. Eliminate Distractions

To be productive, it’s important to eliminate distractions. This means turning off your phone, closing social media tabs, and anything else that might take away from your focus. Blocking out the sounds in your space is important when you’re trying to get something done, it’s important to give it your undivided attention.

9. Set A Time Limit

Set a time limit for yourself. This can help you stay focused and avoid spending too much time on one Tasks. Knowing that you only have a certain amount of time to work on something, can help you stay productive.

10. Take Care Of Yourself

Last but not least, remember to take care of yourself. This means making sure you’re getting enough sleep, eating healthy foods, and taking some time for yourself. When you’re not feeling your best, it’s difficult to be productive. So make sure to make time for Self Care.

What are some of your favorite time management tips? Share them in the comments below! If you like this post please share and PIN!

From your Favorite Editor of Chaos,

Shannon

 

 

Happy One Year: The EDIT Chaos!

Hello Editors! Happy Valentines Day or Galentines Day, call it what you want! Just make sure to love yourself and treat yourself to a TIMEOUT. I’m super excited to say that today marks one year that I (officially) started this blog. Although, the thought of blogging entered my mind years ago, I however did not believe in myself years ago. I, remember sitting on the floor in my bathroom crying, while feeding baby to write my VERY FIRST blog post. I felt defeated and exhausted with everything that was going on in the world and my life.

I was very happy with how far I had come, but unsure with my emotions of gratitude. I remember thinking to myself, I can do this, I can write a blog. I wanted so badly to write and to express my feelings, to share my cries, my knowledge, to have someone to (talk) with. I had this feeling of emptiness, but also a feeling of grate-fullness. It’s hard to explain. BUT, throughout the feelings I decided to write. Although, I do not have A lot of published posts, I DO have a lot of journaling. Some I will share, eventually and some that is just for me. Those that are just for me, I wrote  in the mist of ALL my emotions. Writing the sh*t out was my form of self care. It was my TIMEOUT. Time, to think, to cry, to laugh, be grateful, find peace, but most of all, find Myself! 

For everyone that has encouraged, shared, read and just listened, I want to say THANK YOU!  

The Best Investment one can make, is Investing in themselves!

Please, continue to follow me, as I edit my way through Mommahood, Style, Entrepreneurship, Sustainable efforts,DIYs, Momma Timeouts and all of my wonderful chaos. Grab a tea or wine and stay awhile!!

Your Favorite Editor Of Chaos,

Shannon

New to the Blog, Start HERE!!

Why You Should Make Self Care A Priority

Why You Should Make Self Care A Priority

Self care is taking your power back!

Its rewarding yourself for all the amazing things you do, day in to day out! It’s being selfish, it’s saying No, It’s not showing up for anyone, but yourself first! Momma, you deserve time to fill your cup, so that it can pour into others!

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As Moms, as Women

we spend so much time making sure everyone in our home and around us, is taken care of. We tend forget about ourselves and our needs. D*mn, we forget about our wants. But I’m here to tell you, its okay to indulge in a little self care and to gain your power back, even if its just for an hour.

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To practice self care, we do not have spend $money$ on something fancy, it can be as simple as taking a bath, having two glasses of wine, reading a book alone or taking a class, as long as it’s something for you to recharge. Here’s some of my favorite things I like to do, to practice self care.

As you can see my list is very vague, but those simple things make me happy and allows me to get my power back. It allows this Momma, to recharge, show up and show out as my best self! To all the Mommas and women out there feeling bad for wanting to get your power back, you got this and you deserve to show up for your future SELF.

Your Favorite Editor of Chaos,

Shannon