Hey Friends, Hey!
Remember when you told yourself this is the year, and NOW ITS ACTUALLY THE YEAR!!?! Q1 flew by And now we’re well into the new year, new Quarter and goals are aligning and your list is seeing wild check marks! Here are some ways we will continue to thrive and check mark our goals and dreams.!🌸
Here’s the list:
1. Doubt. Too many times you may have found yourself on the self-doubt train asking yourself “why is this not happening for me?” or “what am I doing wrong?”. What you need to understand is things won’t always go as planned. Honestly “planned” events are overrated, I can attest to that. (Wedding, businesses, friendships, trips… the list goes on) Majority of the things in my life never went as planned and it has been the most enjoyable, successful, blessed moments of my life. So instead of beating yourself up and second guessing your greatness, own it and thrive into the greatness that was created JUST for you!
2. Boundaries. We are all getting too mature to have unclear boundaries with others.. Set boundaries and be direct with what you accept and what you will not. It’s is okay to say “No” and not have any feelings behind it.
3. Fear of failure. This one hits home for me. You have to allow yourself to Grow in order to a thrive. Eliminate the mindset that fear is in control. Be open and committed to learning yourself, and to value your worth.
4. Not celebrating yourself. Too Many people feel guilty when they celebrate themselves. DO NOT!!. You worked hard and put in work. You never gave up. Do not feel like you have to dime your light around others, because others should brighten theirs to compliment yours.
5. Settling. Why settle? Allow yourself to take steps intentionally in the right direction where you will grow and thrive.
6. Gaining approvals. I struggled and struggled hard with this. Understand that you do not need anyone’s approval to do YOU. Please, leave that behind. You owe it to yourself to be your own cheerleader. Be the whole Damn firecracker, not just the spark.
7. Light Dimmers . We all know them! . Let them go. Anyone who can disturb your joy and happiness do not need to be a part of your life!
I hope this was helpful. As we continue to thrive in this year, remember each season, each Quater will not all be the same. But as we continue to thrive in our own greatness, every step will have a meaning, we just might have to change our perspectives to see and understand.
#EDITtoGrow #EDITtoTHRIVE #beyourownmotivation
From,
Your favorite Editor of Chaos
Shannon 🌸
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